Fail fast is a philosophy that values extensive testing and incremental development to determine whether an idea has value. … Failing fast seeks to take the stigma out of the word "failure" by emphasizing that the knowledge gained from a failed attempt actually increases the probability of an eventual success
Often it’s better to leave now, under the best possible terms, to move on and be grateful for the good times and the lessons you’ve learned throughout the relationship (graduation). Or you can wait around and try to withstand the bickering, maneuvering through a series of arguments until eventually, inevitably, everything ends up broken beyond repair (divorce). Letting go is more difficult now, but less in the long run. It doesn’t mean you don’t love that person. You’re not quitting, you’re beginning again." I'm trying to read and understand that, but at the same time not use it as an excuse to stop trying and saying to myself "this only ends in despair, walk away now"