We had a very engaging conversation around needs and getting the needs you need out of a relationship. You have one small life on this rock and you get to make a decision everyday on how you spend that and who you spend it with. Think about what you need in your life and be okay with having awkard conversation with your partner around your needs and also make it clear you want to understand their needs as well. I know these conversations are not easy but it is better to put it on all the table versus contiuining to live with resement and frustation.
A great book – https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1982165316
How do you support a partner with Anxiety:
https://www.ramseysolutions.com/personal-growth/how-to-help-someone-with-anxiety
If you need help, seek it:
https://www.ramseysolutions.com/personal-growth/how-to-find-a-therapist